Monday, November 7, 2011

The Corrupted Family


The picture painted of God’s family is not only perfect, but it appears perfectly ridiculous. Why is this so? The perfect example of family was marred when Adam and Eve chose to rule themselves instead of submitting to God’s rule. This world has never seen a perfect family since. The very concept of a perfect family is foreign to sinful human kind. It is also completely unattainable. Since sin entered the world families have become, even in the best situations, horribly marred by sin.[1] Now the world is filled with dysfunctional families, single parent families, divorced couples, homosexual families, and many other perversions of God’s perfect intent.[2]
 In a world that accepts any definition of family that allows for its own desires to be placated and openly scorns God’s best, how can a perfect family be discussed and what is the purpose? The reason for discussing the perfect family is found in the discussion itself, namely to become aware of the goal/ standard/hope to have for families.
“For God is my witness, how I long for you all with the affection of Christ Jesus. And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve the things that are excellent, in order to be sincere and blameless until the day of Christ; having been filled with the fruit of righteousness which comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.” [3]
What the Apostle Paul desired for his spiritual children, and that the good work[4] will be completed in families is the hope.    That is the hope to pray towards, to work towards, and to change towards. That is the purpose of learning God’s perfect intent for the family.


[1] Romans 5:12
[2] Leviticus 18:22, Ephesians 6:1-4,
[3] Philippians 1: 8-11
[4] Philippians 1:6

The Perfect Family


“Family” is a very ambiguous[1] term in the modern world. It can mean any of these things:
A group of individuals living under one roof”
“A group of persons of common ancestry”
“The basic unit in society traditionally consisting of two parents rearing their children”
Any of various social units differing from but regarded as equivalent to the traditional family”[2]
But what is the does God mean when referring to “Family” in the Bible? What is God’s definition of a family?[3] What does that family look like?
Drawing solely from the scriptures (God’s word), Family means: One man married to one woman for one lifetime, (Gen. 2:24) blessed with children (Psalm. 127:4).
This family looks like Christ. More specifically: Man leading his wife and loving her as Christ loves the Church; (Eph. 5:25, 1 Cor. 11:3) woman reverencing her husband and submitting to him as the Church submits to the Christ; (Eph. 5:24) the children being trained up in the fear of the Lord, to become Christ-like adults (Prov. 22:6).  The unit of the family provides an environment for “iron to sharpen iron”[4]as each member grows toward godliness.
A biblical definition of the family is a perfect one, the highest goal, the ideal. God is perfect, His word is inerrant; therefore, when God created the family, he created something perfect, and called it “good”. God’s intent for the family was perfect, and His definition of the family is nothing less than perfect.


[1]Lit. “undefined or hard to define”
[2] http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/family
[3] Not to be confused with the Family of God.
[4] Proverbs  27:17