Monday, November 7, 2011

The Perfect Family


“Family” is a very ambiguous[1] term in the modern world. It can mean any of these things:
A group of individuals living under one roof”
“A group of persons of common ancestry”
“The basic unit in society traditionally consisting of two parents rearing their children”
Any of various social units differing from but regarded as equivalent to the traditional family”[2]
But what is the does God mean when referring to “Family” in the Bible? What is God’s definition of a family?[3] What does that family look like?
Drawing solely from the scriptures (God’s word), Family means: One man married to one woman for one lifetime, (Gen. 2:24) blessed with children (Psalm. 127:4).
This family looks like Christ. More specifically: Man leading his wife and loving her as Christ loves the Church; (Eph. 5:25, 1 Cor. 11:3) woman reverencing her husband and submitting to him as the Church submits to the Christ; (Eph. 5:24) the children being trained up in the fear of the Lord, to become Christ-like adults (Prov. 22:6).  The unit of the family provides an environment for “iron to sharpen iron”[4]as each member grows toward godliness.
A biblical definition of the family is a perfect one, the highest goal, the ideal. God is perfect, His word is inerrant; therefore, when God created the family, he created something perfect, and called it “good”. God’s intent for the family was perfect, and His definition of the family is nothing less than perfect.


[1]Lit. “undefined or hard to define”
[2] http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/family
[3] Not to be confused with the Family of God.
[4] Proverbs  27:17

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